one of my non-orthodox friends has been having some personal trouble. lately one of her exboyfriends (went out for eight months) has been asking her to get back together w/him, and she was about to. but one night she went to the movies w/her family and saw him w/another girl. kissing. she was really upset. well this isn't the first time he had done this. while they were going out, he cheated on her 3 times if not more. she usually forgives him after a couple of months. anyway... well i told her about the coptic churches view on dating. but i thought if she forgives him, he would never learn and do this to her over and over agian. but recently we had a bible study about forgiveness. so that made me wonder if she should forgive him or just ignore him and put him out of her life. also, when i was say "Our Father who art... " i realized that we say "forgive us our trespasses AS WE FORGIVE OTHERS" so that made me wonder what she should do. what do you think she should do?