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1. I would like to sincerely apologize for starting to get aggressive yesterday. I hope you will forgive me.
2. I would like to elaborate a little more on what I was saying, because I don't think I was entirely clear.
In the Coptic Church where I grew up all men (deacons or not) were given Holy Communion in the main Alter, the young pre-pubescent girls were also given Holy Communion in the main Alter. Post-pubescent girls and women were not. This was to emulate the old covenant law regarding women in the Temple, (and the reason St. Mary had to be betrothed to St. Joseph). This is what I was referring to when I spoke of men entering the Holy of Holies, not necessarily service.
I also used the example of St. Mary Magdeline being the first to see the Risen Christ Himself because when she saw Him, He actually called her to evangelism. He called her to "Go and tell My disciples to go to Galilee, and there they will see Me." In this situation, God called a woman to go to a room of 11 men and tell them what to do to see Him. I used that example to show that women can and have been called to such roles by God Himself. When talking of "rights" in the liturgy I understand that there are callings rather than "rights", but as I elaborated on, women are not exempt from these "callings" especially since a woman was the first called (by God Himself) to evangelize the Holy Resurrection.
It is also very confusing to me in another sense. Because on one hand we say that women have no designated role in liturgy, and on another hand we say that liturgy is supposed to try to emulate the Kingdom of Heaven. (In which there is no male or female). In saying these 2 things, are we implying that it is also only men who have a role in Heaven?
I understand that the Holy Bible says that a woman is not to teach or usurp authority over a man, but I fail to understand how reading aloud from the Holy Bible without teaching meaning or interpretation usurps authority? Or does that tie into the "silence" factor?
When I said there can be no liturgy with only women and a priest, I was correct because I did not mention the deacon. If there is no deacon there is no liturgy, so you need at least 2 men (priest and deacon) to perform a liturgy. That's what I was referring to by saying that.
I also understand that there are more ways to serve than in the Liturgy, but at the same time believing that they should have the opportunity available for some for of service within the Liturgy, I believe, is not restrictive. Even when speaking of head coverings, St. Paul says that a womsn should cover her head when praying or prophesying. Does the fact that he included "or prophesying" signify that a woman can be called to liturgical roles, or is this referring to prophesying in other contexts?
I appreciate your responses, and again, I am very sorry for getting aggressive yesterday.
The fact that there were women deacons in the ancient church is also important. That means that there are roles for women in the liturgy. But we have yet to fully understand the proper theological background in this role. There are books written about this subject and sometimes they conflict. We have rules about what a woman deacon is for now, but as more research comes, we could go back and consider whether we should do some changes to reflect our ancient Orthodox practices, not to accommodate for modern sociological trends (that's important to highlight; we don't want to submit to cultural standards, but we are the ones who are supposed to get the culture to raise their standards in a divine manner).
You should encourage yourself to read a lot of the Church fathers as well as see what sister Orthodox churches do and say about this as well.
One thing I take issue with what you said is that you seem to be not able to connect that idea that the liturgy is the moment when you are spending time in the Kingdom of God, and yet because you perceive that since you have no role in the liturgy, you have no role in the Kingdom. This can't be further from the truth.
First of all, the liturgy is EVERYTHING. You don't separate service in the liturgy with service of other things. The liturgy continues when you serve outside the parish. This is one of those examples where the Coptic Church needs to rediscover proper liturgical theology. The Eastern Orthodox have good books on this now, and a pioneer in this study is a man by the name of Fr. Alexander Schmemman.
Second of all, the liturgy is not an icon of the Kingdom. It IS the Kingdom present through icons of what we can see (except the Eucharist is not an icon, but the actual Body and Blood of Christ). So our maleness and femaleness become icons of something grander. When we say "icons" that means when that day of the second coming happens these "icons" turn into realities. But we also are partaking of that reality as well. We are in the second coming when we pray the liturgy. Male and female have been icons of mainly two things. First Christ and the Church. Second the Father and the Son. Notice there is a sense of submission, but not in inequality. When the second coming happens, we are all placed in that position when we, in communion with the Son as the Church, will be in the bosom of the Father as the Son is. There will no bishop, presbyter, deacon, altar table, saints icons, church vessels, male, or female (since these are all icons), but Christ Himself, giving us His own body and blood, and bringing us into His own dignity and honor into the Father. That is what we do in the liturgy, and eventually all these gifts (ordination and the deaconate) will go away, because we will have no greater joy than sitting side to side on a throne next to the divine Word Himself! All of this is a temporary icon to the reality of our glorification in Christ, which leads one to be humble and patient about these temporary tonsuring and ordination issues that we have, which, while important, are not as significant as what they LEAD TO in the second coming.
Third of all, let us pray that we read more, study more, understand more without jumping to conclusions. This is a subject that interests me, and I learn new things along the way. It is something that we need to help each other with. There are many female theologians today who love the church and seek these answers like you with the right mindset. One person I particularly like to listen to is Presbyteria (the Greek Orthodox equivalent of "Tasoni") Eugenia Constantinou, who does these Bible Study podcasts called "Search the Scriptures". When she discusses the chapters in Exodus on the ark and the Tabernacle and Holy of Holies, she talks also about the rules involving women and the altar. It's very enlightening and I think you will find that she removes certain misconceived notions regarding the topic while maintaining an important reverence to Orthodox tradition and praxis.
God bless! :)
http://egyptianstreets.com/2016/06/20/women-stand-up-to-inequality-and-harassment-in-new-campaign/
It may be good for what is happening outside, but is it a reflection of what we seek inside our church?
But are the Holy Orders a "right" for everyone to aspire to, like being a physician or a president of a country? NO! No one has a right to become a deacon, presbyter, of bishop, but is called, and the Church has a theological reason for some gender restriction in this area, and we need to respect that.
My take on this is that even if your remove all the cultural influences, you still find the restrictions take an important theological understanding, which I outlined earlier.
"If the foot should say, because I am not a hand I am not of the body, is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear should say, because I am not an eye I am not of the body, is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where would be the hearing? If the whole we're hearing where would be the smelling? But now God has set the members each one of them, in the body just as he pleased. And if they were all one member, where would the body be? But now indeed there are many members but one body."
This reading really helped me a lot with my discouraged feelings. I thank God for this message (which sometimes I still have to remind myself of when I start to feel discouraged again), and I also want to thank you all for having patiently answered my questions. God bless you all. :)
1- Deaconesses (female deacon equivalents, in any form) DO exist. They are the girls who usher the communion, who run the microphone and projector systems, etc. Whoever reads this, know that the word "deacon" meant "servant" or "helper" in old languages (I think... it's been a while.) A deaconess would be a female servant or helper.
Deaconesses ARE:
--Equal to deacons
--100% needed in any church
--Essential to any part of the church
Deaconesses ARE NOT:
--Less than deacons
--"Having less service" than deacons (Different doesn't mean less)
-A deacon in the altar saying a response is no more important than the woman working the AV system to keep all the mics working :)
--A product of sexism and patriarchism
The reason I've been told that female deacons aren't ordained like male deacons is that Jesus Christ did not call his female followers the same way he called his 12 13 disciples. Yet the women were 100% needed in the story of Jesus' life- they were, as has been said many times, the first ones at the tomb, and Mary Magdalene was the first one Jesus spoke to that Sunday morning.
++OFF TOPIC- ON THE TOPIC OF YOUNG DEACONS AND THE ALTAR++
I have been in the altar. I know how to. Yet, I am an oghnostos- shouldn't I be reading and chanting?
Well, the problem is, my church has no subdeacons or deacons. We have 7 oghnostiis and a vast number of oghnostiis-in-training epsaltiis. St. Abanoub's Church (where I am from) is coming up on its third birthday in Kiahk; there hasn't been time to ordain a handful of subdeacons or deacons to serve inside. However, I'd rather bend the rules at the beginning of a church's lifespan than ordain a 9-year-old deacon.
I recommend this idea/system for any new churches, as it's worked (mostly) fine for us:
Every week, 2 knowledgable oghnostiis and 2 learning epsaltiis or oghnostiis are in the altar.
The rest of the epsaltiis chant and do the Agpeya readings to become accustomed to reading.
The 3 Bible readings (Pauline, Catholic, Acts) are to be read either by adult epsaltiis or oghnostiis.
The Gospel and Psalm are to be read by a knowledgeable oghnostos or by Abouna/Sayyedna.
Predetermine all of these things, and some major responses that cannot be determined immediately (ex: khen pikhristos and tas ke-felas, Amen Ti-nahti/I believe, en-sofia, etc..) Saturday night via a meeting or group chat.
Use this for all annual days, ie, no fast or feast days, as to not confuse the learning deacons.
^-Proof of why to do this: A young deacon once said the entire Offertory in the festive tune.... in Lent. He didn't know the difference between the fasting time period and the festive time period, and he had learned all his responses from practice on the altar during festive days and last year's Holy 50.
There's a lot I could write, but I'm going to leave it there. Please feel free to yell at correct me.
Aripameui qen `pyi `m`P=o=c,
Daniel.