I do not know yet how to serve God completely but if I did would you forsake all to follow Jesus with me?
Jesus commands you to forsake your parents for your spouse and He likewise asks the same from us. Will you forsake all for His sake?
If you knew you must serve God in some way but it means to spend less time with mum and dad and not go to them because you fear losing them without spending time with them would you do so?
This is a great commandment
If however what you do does not edify and build you up you ought to spend time with mum and dad, but if you are spending your time to make money through which you may serve God or some other way to serve God this should come first and you should not think about mum and dad.
I know one poster has said she is leaving her house and her mum is upset about her lost animal. I think this is good as long as you are doing something important but you must not leave her if she is getting sick or she is really lonely and you are already well established
If you do not forsake them you will just destroy your life in all areas
I was so disturbed not knowing how to prioritise my time yesterday but I think I came up with this solution today in the morning. I hope it was God who pitied me