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Sigh, is this gonna be one of those threads that gets out of hand and the moderator has to close it?
oh....w're not even close....we still on the safe side :-)
I don't think there is any need to take an aggressive tone here. I am convinced that if we are able to discuss this peacefully with Rubina maana she will come to understand what we are saying. This doesn't mean we can' be firm, but from my experience, I'd have to say that taking an aggressive tone usually makes people get defensive and ignore what is being said.
Rubina seems to be unaware of problems with Protestantism and if we can discuss this calmly, I'm sure that by the grace of God, she'll come to understand.
Please pray for me
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plus you were speaking spanish so are you really in a position to teach me about orthodox?
What do you mean by this, Geomike? I don't want to read too much into one short off-hand comment, but as a Spanish-speaking person it does make me a little bit uncomfortable. You can't speak Spanish and be Orthodox? This must be news to the Coptic churches in Mexico and Bolivia (not to mention other Orthodox churches in Mexico, Chile, Argentina, etc). :-\
I am not saying that you aren't orthodox because you speak Spanish, but what i was trying to say was that the style of your writing and the words you use give me the feeling that you aren't orthodox.
This is my last post in this thread because my style of writing is offending people. Forgive me if you were offended. Pray for me.
Obviously nothing will work unless God blesses. However, we must do what we can and then God will do his portion. In other words, though it is God who ultimately brings people to Him, we can be tools and allow him to do this through usPerhaps we can calmly explain to her any errors, and this will change her outlook. I don't think Rubina Maana is trying to shove her faith down our throats but rather that she doesn't see the errors in what she believes and therefore speaks about it as if there is no problem with it.
We can use this as an opportunity to explain to her the differences between Orthodoxy and this Protestant group and why they are irreconcilable. I'm sure that if we explain to her calmly she will either agree with what we say, or: disagree but see that the two are irreconcilable and will not continue posting aspects of this group that disagree with Orthodoxy.
Please pray for me!
Rubina is a product of that dynamic. She has to defend it because her spouse brought her to Protestantism. No one wants to admit that they made a mistake in association; even after they realize it internally.
It's the same with parents and children. Parents tend to defend their children's actions because they do not want to admit their failures as parents, e.g., homosexuality, sexual promiscuity, divorce, etc.