A realy good friend of mine is looking for a wife. He wants a Christian wife. What should he do? What should he look for? How do you know if someone is REALLY Christian, and not just acting?
This isn't a topic that should go under PERSONAL ISSUES. (but if you disagree - please move it)
Let me explain why:
Marriage is a sacrament. Its not a personal issue. Your marriage is indeed a public and Holy affair. The selection of a wife/husband, isn't something trivial, but it should involve God from the start; even from the selection process.
But how does one choose?
What should you look for?
What questions should he ask a girl to know whether she really is who she says she is??
For me personally, I think God reveals everything to you; and its for you to decide. Everyone is probably at different spiritual levels, and these levels are manifested to you. that's my opinion. Shall I just tell him that?