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Is she easy? does she say yes to everything?
Does she go out with everyone who asks her?
Just you agreeing to go with him tells him a lot about you, even if these things are not ones that you want to project.
Of course, I apologized and told him that I would not be able to go with him. Guess what? He respected me more!
People say that I'm conservative in that I don't hug guys... I don't go out for them... but it really does pay off and you'll reap the rewards in the end :)
You say that you don't like to be judged, but the truth is that each one of us is judged on a daily basis, especially girls.
Guys want to marry someone with good values and respect and their families want the same thing for them.
So, they look at the girls and judge every aspect of her... from the way she dresses to the way she walks to the type of people she hangs out with. It's just a fact of life that we need to accept.
You NOT going to coffee with this individual, no matter how innocent and friendly it may be and no matter how much you really want to go, will show that you are a strong individual who's not afraid of sticking to the morals and values of tradition.
Even if this guy gets a little upset at the time, his family will respect you more and he will too once he thinks about it... and he'll start chasing after you!!
Anyways, in the end the choice is yours to make... I'm just giving you my opinion from my own experiences.Good luck and God bless.
smoking is bad for your health, but I'm not small. I mean, if I was a small bodied woman, then I think that would be dangerous. However, 5'9'' and I swim 40 mins each twice a week, so when I smoke it isn't so bad. I admit, it would be bad if I didn't any sport.