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To you, you may sound that you are willing to settle/ humble/ compromise Unfortunately your strategy is selfish, you want someone else's love and not want to give an equal or higher love. You give your life to your career but want someone to give u…
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Get to know her as a friend first. See if you have common interests that lead you to the same college societies/activities. Then ask her out for coffee/ a meal/ study session (if you are good at what you do, you can offer to help her with difficul…
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Being in a relationship is not to satisfy a need to be with someone. You have to be able to give and sacrifice and compromise. And you can't do that if you are already troubled
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Sorry I am not trying to insult, I just wanted to say that if someone is not at peace with themselves, how are they ready to share their life with someone else
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Humpy dumpty sat on a stretcher, Humpy dumpty had a great fracture And all the ambulance men and his next of kin, tried to give humpty ventilation again
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hmm it depends on your age. I felt very similar to you when I was young and I gradually started being more and more withdrawn from society. So I advise you not to take this path. There must be some other way. The longer you feel this way and find …
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kahraba13, I don't have an opportunity to serve. Not one that I can see anyways. Totally4God, it is a good way of looking at how Jesus suffered. I am just not sure how long I can bear this for. The occasional times when I do talk to people, I feel…
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You can speak to the person if you are close enough and tell them what you think and ask them what they think. But you can't tell their parents. That's their job. Because if you do, you will definitely lose their trust. (Would be completely differen…
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You sound quite disturbed and I would not advise you to be in a relationship until you resolve these issues. Marriage is not a transaction to guarantee you someone to accompany you. It is much more than that. And remember, there is no going back. …
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I'd recommend the dating series found here http://orthodoxsermons.org/sermons/real-dating-part-1 As they explain how to apply Christianity to modern life dating and explaining the reasons why, rather than just stating the rules (ie no premarital se…
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Guys there is no need to attack with words... For someone to truly show that they care about God, they need to spend at least a year learning about Christianity, the bible and to be in regular contact with a spiritual guide from church. It shouldn'…
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Thank you so much Bishoy, I agree with everything you said.
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[quote author=sodr2 link=topic=14584.msg165818#msg165818 date=1378149255] thanks for using your qualifications to address my psychological issues and diagnose me with a mild form of autism which is just mild enough for me to be using a computer :) […
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May you be, all you life, happy and relaxed, as a simple Christian , the heap , and aspiring to be " superficially " happy with those around you , but , what if inside you, you want a more sublime love , different of which seeks to find in life, Mos…
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God be with you and your wife. You sound frightened. I hope things get better soon.
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[quote author=Ortho link=topic=14584.msg165783#msg165783 date=1377806169] Talking to my Spiritual Father helped me a lot! Though it’s hard, try to pray about it. May God heal us!!! [/quote] How did it help? So, are you used to being lonely? I don…
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The doubts you have are obviously from the devil, so don't let it put you off getting involved in church :) Also you said you are worried about something bad happening again that may drive you away from god again. We are not perfect. We are all wea…
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Thank you so much theophilus for your reply. I think I agree with everything you said here! The verse from proverbs literally describes all I feel in one sentence. It is also very insightful when you talked about Jesus; it has never occurred to me…
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you have until november to learn or invent some recipes! Haha, scary thought.
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I may be wrong, but I'm getting a feeling from your writing that you may be anxious and restless? May be it would help to get CBT to teach you relaxing techniques that can help you feel more composed and in control?
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I don't really understand, can you explain it a bit more?
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Mabsoota, if you don't mind me asking, how does it work if you are orthodox and your partner is not (sorry, I'm assuming this is who you were referring to). I'm asking because my family is orthodox but don't really fast much which discourages me f…
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Didn't you say you have studies which you are trying to concentrate on? Most of the things we post on Facebook nobody read. Facebook is a waste of your time. Set a small time allowance for fb everyday and give more time to your studies which you a…
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Do you actually shout/ speak to random people out loud? Or do you just feel that you want to?
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I Went to a catholic school. As by law, catholic schools have to accept applications from non Christians too, most students mocked religion at my school. I was too young and too scared so felt I had to hide my faith. During religious education les…
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Atheism is more common among the white British I believe. Most ethnic minorities follow the religions of their parents. Actually many of the new generations of the ethnic minorities consider themselves as members of these religions even though they …
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People recommend that you organise this with your father of confession. It should be a gradual thing, so don't try to do everything perfectly and fast the whole fast. Some people find it more realistic to give up food that they love instead of jus…
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For example, by associating the sin with something that you do not like. To remove the element of enjoyment that attracts you to sin.
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[quote author=mabsoota link=topic=14478.msg165244#msg165244 date=1372012875] did u get a check up with your priest and your doctor? also check to see if you are working or studying over 70 hours a week. this leads to tiredness! [/quote] Can't get …
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[quote author=So Minute, So Lonely, So Blue, So Upset; Unable to Hold On! link=topic=14478.msg165222#msg165222 date=1371868032] Just wake up, it's how I do it [/quote] Easy for some! I struggle to get out of bed..no matter how many hours of sleep …