Ive got a problem which im confussed in how to deal with it. Problem: A collegaue of mine upset me and my other friend and broke the friendship that was in between both of us.We were both really good mates (close). She left a great grieve mark in both of our hearts and now we hardly talk to each other, as if were not there at all. I want to forgive her as Christ commanded but i cant forget what she did. For that person was my best friend and every time i pass him i remember what she did. She acts as if shes innoncent, she hasnt even apoligised or shown any sign of remorse. I'm suprised of her action towards me and my friend. Now i want to forgive but i cant forget. Whenever i see i want to speak to her but i fell sumfing is blocking me.
What should i do? Should i talk to her about it in a Christian manner so it well be easier for me? When i forgive is it nessecary to forget? What about if i cant? What should i do? ??? ??? ??? :'( :'( :'( :'( :-\ ??? :'(
I really need ur help urgentley and ur opinions.
I hope i made sense( my spelling is awful!!!)