ok if u have a crush on some one...
n u know it is the wrong thing and time...
and u cant stop tinking about THAT PERSON...
what he/she told u yesterday....
does he/she like you.....
n NO u r STRONG enough not to want a relationship!!!
but u CANT stop thinking about him!!!
n your friends are trying to help you BUT you CANT!!
I NEED HELPPPPP!!!
the devil attacks when ur not doing anything and fills ur head with thoughts that you want to get rid of but cant- an im not sayin its easy, its hard as but try ur best, pray. ask for the lord to help you take these thoughts out
wel thats my 2cents
hope i helped
i really don't know what to do when that happened..
just one question 4 u, how do u know it is the wrong thing? U mean thats its lust n u like him/her purely on appearence?
answer that and maye just maybe i can better answer u..
becasue it is not the time for marriage...therefore it is the wrong time...am i wrong??
I was just saying because that's not always the case. It doesn't always have to be something bad. Did ever think that maybe it's something different and something good?
I'm just saying.. it's not always what we think it is.
But if it is indeed something bad, it is not easy to overcome it. There is no one simple solution.. no easy way out. First off, I suggest you tell your Father of Confession the whole story. Where you met her, where you see her (or him, i don't really know your gender...lol), what you like about them, how you feel about them, the whole smear. Also if this person is at your church and there is no escape, you could try learning more hymns so you can get caught up with those during the service. If all else fails as a last resort, you could try and find one thing you don't like about them, and dwell on that one thing for quite sometime. That isn't the greatest way, but it works, but only as a last resort if all else fails.
I hope this helps the least bit. Also be sure to pray and regularly consult with your Father of Confession.
there is one problem...my foc is the type that says Lord will forgive you!! however i like the last resort idea!!! thanks for that marmar!!
To get rid off unwanted thoughts fill ur brain with good ones.
Don't try to get rid of the thought, just input new thoughts "in" instead.
I just have one thing to say to you: discuss this problem with your father of confession and not us.
of coursse i will talk this through with my confession father but i want t o get opinions from fellow coptic teenagers...thats why im on tasbeha.org
bigmak, I think that you are just not concentrating and telling your FOC, what you sin and that's all, in able to understand what your FOC is saying you need to have your full potential and full concentration on what he is saying, in your mind, break up the sentences he is saying, it will help you, piece by piece you will begin to understand!
thats so true coptic servant. ..i couldnt agree more....thanks:D
~Daughter of God