I know this is the time that most people think about who they want to be with and start a relationship with that would lead to marriage.
So heres my story,
I recently liked a friend for 9 months. I knew that the did not like me but i honestly thought he was the right person fo rme to be with. I was confused to why i liked him and everybody told me i should get over him since nothing is going to happen. I talked to my FOC about him and he gave me great advice.
HE told me to put my feelings for him as a seed. The more i water the seed (or think about him), the more the seed grows and eventually becomes a plant. The plant symbolizes that you can not control your feelings about the guy (or girl). BUT, if you do not water those feelings, the seed would not grow into a plant and little by little the seed does not grow and slowly starts to disappear. I tried his advice and i have completly lost all of my feelings for teh guy. I am so glad i took my FOC's advice since i found out he likes somebody besides me. I did not water my seed and did not get hurt when i found out he liked somebody else since my seeds was already gone.
Hope that helps (: