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According to the interviews shown on TV of the families of the victims, they all have forgiven the murderers.If this isn't a miracle, nor a fruit of God's Holy Spirit, I don't know what is.They all have said they remarkably feel comforted, and although sad, they have nothing against those who carried out this act of violence and terror.Forgiveness is part of our raison d'etre as Christians. It says in the Bible that God's ways is foolishness to man - and I see that. It doesnt make sense why anyone would want to forgive; but you have to look at it this way:Those who killed really need our prayers so they can repent, how will they know God unless through our actions? And our actions in which they are expected to know God is through us showing love, forgiveness, kindness and charity.These are the tools we use to evangelise our faith.
Our Lord has shown us the example that we should follow. It is not an easy way, but it is the way of salvation.I can't think of any of our martyrs who insisted on seeing justice done, rather than leaving justice to God, in His own time and His own way.
I am immediately drawn to think of the desert father who came back to his cell and found he was being robbed. He didn't shout 'Stop thief!', he went into his cell and found that they had left a small bundle and ran after them to give it to them. He assisted in the injustice being done to himself!
This cannot be made a rule. You have already been advised by several people here that if you believe the matter which has affected you is so serious that it requires further intervention then follow your conscience. But as a rule, the history of the Church and of the martyrs and confessors, teaches us that we do not need to see justice done to believe that God's justice will prevail and to be able to forgive those who wrong us.
PS. I am not sure what you mean about someone sharing your account. All of your posts seem to be by you. The other person that people are referring to closed his account just before you started posting so you may not know him and may not have read any of his posts. But he had a very similar background to you, Franco-Egyptian, living in the UK, had a relative who was a bishop, knows the works of Dr Hany Mina Mikhail very well, and had suffered at the hands of priests and bishops and demanded justice. This is why people are mentioning the similarities.
6Once when we were going to the place of prayer, we were met by a slave girl who had a spirit by which she predicted the future. She earned a great deal of money for her owners by fortune-telling. 17This girl followed Paul and the rest of us, shouting, "These men are servants of the Most High God, who are telling you the way to be saved." 18She kept this up for many days. Finally Paul became so troubled that he turned around and said to the spirit, "In the name of Jesus Christ I command you to come out of her!" At that moment the spirit left her. 19When the owners of the slave girl realized that their hope of making money was gone, they seized Paul and Silas and dragged them into the marketplace to face the authorities. 20They brought them before the magistrates and said, "These men are Jews, and are throwing our city into an uproar 21by advocating customs unlawful for us Romans to accept or practice." 22The crowd joined in the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten. 23After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully. 24Upon receiving such orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet in the stocks. 25About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them. 26Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everybody's chains came loose. 27The jailer woke up, and when he saw the prison doors open, he drew his sword and was about to kill himself because he thought the prisoners had escaped. 28But Paul shouted, "Don't harm yourself! We are all here!" 29The jailer called for lights, rushed in and fell trembling before Paul and Silas. 30He then brought them out and asked, "Sirs, what must I do to be saved?" 31They replied, "Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household." 32Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all the others in his house. 33At that hour of the night the jailer took them and washed their wounds; then immediately he and all his family were baptized. 34The jailer brought them into his house and set a meal before them; he was filled with joy because he had come to believe in God—he and his whole family. 35When it was daylight, the magistrates sent their officers to the jailer with the order: "Release those men." 36The jailer told Paul, "The magistrates have ordered that you and Silas be released. Now you can leave. Go in peace." 37But Paul said to the officers: "They beat us publicly without a trial, even though we are Roman citizens, and threw us into prison. And now do they want to get rid of us quietly? No! Let them come themselves and escort us out."