i think that i am in love with this girl in my church. i spoke to my father of confession about it, and he said to stop talking to her and ill get over it. its been 2 years now, and i have not gotten over it. I'm only 16, so my foc said to wait until college or a more reasonable time to start a relationship. do you think its a good idea to start dating as soon as i go to college in less than 2 years?
you might think that im lying to myself, but lets just say that i plan to marry her. should i start a relationship once i get to college? i have a year and a half till then, but im worried that it wont last for 6 or 8 years till i would propose. i have been praying about it, but nothing yet.
PS: is this appropriate to post in "personal issues" i expect a somewhat religious but more social answer.