I have a friend who I care about HEAPS and I love SOO MUCH.. Unfortunately this friend and I havn't seen much of each other lately and we've started to drift apart..
When I spoke to her recently and was giving her advice on something [ a situation she got herself into that I think is very dangerous ] she threw it back in my face saying 'It's my life and you can't control me'..
I couldn't believe what she had said, I was shocked and hurt, this lead to anger. It's not something that I expected.. I mean, I did half expect her to completely disregard everything I was saying and for it to go through one ear and out the other.. but not for her to actually say that. She obviously doesn't want my oppinion on issues anymore.. and I can't be her friend and watch her throw her life away without opening my mouth.
I'm not actually sure what I should be doing now. Should I slowly evaporate this relationship from my life [as much as that would hurt]? Or should I confront her?
She destroyed every last hope I had in her. I don't respect her anymore.. but I do love her and I miss her.. I don't want her out of my life.. but I dont think she's good for me. What do I do ???