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great to hear you have had contact with them, i saw the video last year and was very impressed :-)
Sorry, this is long post, so needs more than one entry, but i really hope and pray that youfind the best way, and hope that this will help you. i admire your honesty andcuriosity and sincerity.
i know couples who are living in very different Christiantraditions.
all of them really struggle, and none of them would chooseto start out this way if they had the opportunity to choose again.
one thinks the bread IS the body of Christ, the other thinksthat the wife / husband is committing idolatry.
one askes the priest for advice, the other gets jealous thatthe wife / husband 'never listens to him / her and loves the priest more' (ifyou add a drop or two of jealousy over the years, this is how it feels to thenon orthodox person).
one happily sticks to the old calendar and submissivelywaits to see if the bishops are going to merge their astronomical calculations,the other takes offense when the husband / wife interrupts the cooking of'Christmas' dinner to fry some fish fingers in order to keep the fast and avoidmeat or cheese.
one delights in getting up early to pray and fast, the otherfeels lonely and rejected when the wife / husband does not join him / her andthe kids for the birthday lunch.
yes, i know you can sit there and not eat, but the otherperson can still take offense.
oh, and kids.
one tells the kids that saint peter (for example) is up inparadise, close to God, and can ask God to bless the kids, the other tells thesame kids that this is idolatry and peter is dead and we are not allowed to'pray to' dead people because it is witchcraft.