I want to apologise for saying having a bad history is not wise, I meant like if you are going to a job interview having bad grades is not always good. You must prove yourself worthy User 157 it's ok we all do mistakes, I'm still in high school I dont have a job yet
Geomike thank you so much for your advice it will hphopefully help me, so is it ok if I'm friends with a boy rather than a girl because I know this guy will help me better in my spiritual life?
God bless you (sorry for all these question)
Well honestly, this isn't "wrong" but not everyone is perfect. Maybe you won't have incorrect feelings toward him, but you have to remember, he is a guy. I am not saying that guys are bad, (i m a guy), but it's just our nature to have these bad feelings towards the other gender. So while it isn't bad having a guy as a friend, he shouldn't be your closest friend.
A girl can't talk to a guy about a lot of matters. If she ever has a problem, sometimes it isn't wise to ask a guy because you might put him through a lot of temptations even though you had good intentions.
So, in conclusion, it isn't good to have a guy as your closest friend, but it doesn't mean that it is wrong to have a guy friend. It is perfectly fine and normal to have a guy friend, just be extra careful and make sure that you don't accidently do something that might jeapordize his purity.
This is a very controversial topic, so i would like ur opinions on this. (i am talking to everyone)