Today i was going to a birthday party with my friends. During the car ride one of them pulled out two bottles of alcohol, and i told him dont ever come into the car with that garbage ever again, and that i really was upset with him for even bringing that near me. Later in the day they asked me why i did not join them when they would party, drink, smoke, etc.... they basically called me a bad friend for 'ditching' them for other church friends of mine. I basically told them that i never want myself to be associated with this nonsense and that i really could not stand the fact that they did this stuff. Then i started an argument about how all of these pleasures are non-beneficial, and that from my perspective they are useless......Long story short......I lost the argument because i could not argue the fact that doctors have done many studies on weed/marijuana and supported the fact that it is not harmful to health. How do i argue this point to people with no religious background, and no cares of their wrong doings. All i could say was "i will find you an argument when i have one." How is it possible to argue to them that weed does change them, and that it is a bad thing to do...they dont understand how weed is bad.